Posts Tagged ‘Rescuer?’

When your cell phone becomes a rescuer, spyware and more

Wednesday, January 21st, 2009

Cell phones are connecting the world blah blah… We all know that, don’t we? But compared to its older sister, the landline phones and other older forms of communication, the cell phone has brought in a lot of benefits, which have largely gone unnoticed. Let’s give an ode to our lovely teeny-weeny phones and acknowledge some of the best traits of cell phone technology in our lives.

Escape from a boring conversation – Got stuck in a boring party and mindless conversation discussing global warming and new farming techniques. Grab your cell phone, play your ringtone, pretend to have gotten an important call, mutter “Excuse me, gotta go” and lo you are free.

Goodbye creditors – Is it a call from a friend who wants to borrow some money from you, or your credit card issuer asking you when you can pay back the dues? “Hello….Hello….i cannot hear you….the signal is poor here”….plunk. Press ‘End call’. Thank God cell phones suffer from poor signal at times, unlike landline phones.

Flaunt your cell phone – This is obviously something that you could not have done with your landline phones even if you wanted to. Make sure you download ringtones for your iPhone or blackberry. When surrounded by inquisitive colleagues or a in a party that you are trying to impress, ask your friend to give you a call. Flash your new gizmo in style. After all cell phones are the only things that men compare about who has got the smallest one.

Spy on your guy – Think your partner is seeing someone else? Many service providers offer cell phones family plans specifically for partners. Get one for you both and find out to whom your partner is making and receiving calls.

Exchange text messages in class – Planning a weekend pajama party or deciding on a baseball team in school. What are the boring Math and Physics lectures for, if not for exchanging text messages with friends in class rooms on important issues as these? There are special cell phone plans for students and others who text a lot more than making calls. You can also download games for mobile from the internet. And to avoid getting caught, use the mosquito buzz or teen buzz that your teacher can never hear.

Lose phone numbers that you want to lose – Want to avoid an irritating old classmate or a pesky neighbor. Just stop taking their calls. In case you bump into them in parking lots and neighborhood stores and they complain of you not taking their calls, have a ready response, “Oh dear, my cell phone plans have changed and I have moved to a new plan. I lost all my old contacts. How are you doing these days?”

Let me end this with a disclaimer. If there is a disgruntled reader, then for your information, “the author of this post is temporarily not available. Please try again later”.

Mother of Whiplash Victim Wishes To Thank Mystery Rescuer

Thursday, November 20th, 2008

A woman whose sons were involved in a serious car crash which left one of them with severe bruising, cracked ribs and whiplash and another needing treatment for a couple of fractured ribs, wishes to thank the woman who came to their rescue.

On April 29, Tracey Causer’s two teenage sons were driving down the road when their vehicle crashed into two parked cars and a telegraph pole. The car was badly damaged, while the pair were knocked unconscious.

An unknown woman rushed onto the scene where the car was in danger of blowing up and dragged the unconscious boys clear of the wreck. She then wrapped them in blankets and put 15 year old Samuel in the recovery position.

The woman then called emergency services who afterwards said that her actions had saved the boys lives. By the time Tracey arrived on the scene, the woman had gone.

The two boys, Ashley aged 19 and Samuel aged 15 were rushed to hospital. Samuel was diagnosed with whiplash as well as cracked ribs and Ashley was treated for cracked ribs also. Three others involved in the crash escaped with minor whiplash injuries.

Tracey wishes to express her gratitude to the mystery rescuer and is appealing for her to come forward so that she can meet her and thank her in person.

She commented: “They are so lucky to have got out alive. It must have been motherly instinct. There was no time to thank her when it happened, and I have no way of contacting the woman. I would love to see her again as I can`t thank her enough. It could have been a lot worse.”

Carys is an author of several articles pertaining to No Win No Fee, Whiplash Claims, Personal Injury Claims and other legal articles.

affiliate rescuer pdf can help

Wednesday, November 19th, 2008

The affiliate rescuer pdf,is a terrific guidebook into affiliate sales.
Nobody has made the perfect affiliate market yet. But some people do know how to make it big in this kind of market. It is just knowing your kind of market and making the earnings there.
In side the affiliate resuer pdf you will find some of the best ways I have seen to date to promote and profit from your affiliate sites.
While some ways may seem a bit shady, the affiliate resue pdf is a perfectly reasonabile and clear cut guidline for optimal promotions.You will learn the easiestand low cost(really almost all are free!!) ways to profit from any affiliate program you want to join.
I was blown away by the simplicity and knowlege held inside this guide, and while I have been online for some time,there was so much to learn.If you want to learn the correct ways to get the cash be sure and read through the affiliate rescuer pdf a number of times, try each and every step to see which ones you excell at and drive it home!! In no time you will master the easier parts for yourself and then can continue on to master new tactics. Then you, yes YOU will be an extreme affiliate marketer earning $3000 or even $5000 a month or more!!
Do youself a huge favor, grab a copy if you can,you wont be sorry….only successful!

Instant Decision Loans – Your Rescuer from Financial Emergency

Wednesday, November 12th, 2008

Stuck in emergency situation and need urgent cash? It may be medical treatment or house improvement you can apply for instant decision loans to fulfill any of your monetary requirements. As the name suggests, these loans are granted immediately with minimum wastage of time in processing of loan approval. So, you get instant money in your time of need without any hassles and with fewer legal formalities.

However, there is a small eligibility criterion that you must qualify to get an approval for these loans. Firstly, you must be a UK resident. Secondly, your monthly income must be over £1,000. Also, it is necessary to have a personal current check account that is in use for more than 6 months. If you qualify through this eligibility criterion, you can easily get an approval for instant decision loans.

The maximum loan amount that is extended for these loans is £1,500. Both variable and fixed methods of interest rates are available. It is entirely your choice as to which interest rate is suitable for you. These are short-term loans. So, the repayment period allowed for instant decision loans is 7-18 days. However, the repayment method provided is quite easy. Hence, you need not bother much about the repayment.

It would be a good idea to do a thorough loan market search to strike a good deal. You may search over the Internet to know about the available options that are on offer by the lenders. You can thereby apply online with the most suitable lender. In most cases of instant decision loans, everything from applying for the loan to its repayment is done online to minimize the wastage of your time and efforts. The loan doesn’t take much time for the approval and the amount is immediately transferred to your account after the approval.

Moreover, even if you have no or poor credit history, you need not bother about the approval of instant decision loans. Though you may not be offered a very good interest rate as compared to people who have a good credit history but you can still get a feasible deal without many hassles. What more can you ask for? Also, you may be a salaried person or self-employed, it doesn’t matter to the lenders.

Needless to say, these loans are also a good opportunity for people with poor credit history to improve their credit scores so as to get loans at competitive rates in future. So, just go ahead and apply for instant decision loans without any fear of rejection. Apart from the eligibility criterion there is nothing that can stop you from getting an approval for these loans. Simply take the initiative, fill up the easy online loan application form and everything will follow on its own.

Get ready to say good-bye to all your monetary requirements. Now, you don’t have to feel embarrassed and ask money from your family or friends. Live an esteemed and independent life without anyone’s help with instant decision loans, your rescuer in the time of need.

Daniel Hall is a financial expert dealing with instant decision loans, who provides counseling and expert knowledge on instant decision loan UK. To know more about instant decision Loans, instant decision bad credit loans UK visit www.instantdecisionloansuk.co.uk

affiliate rescuer pdf

Monday, November 10th, 2008

The affiliate rescuer pdf,is a terrific guide into affiliate sales.
Nobody has invented the perfect affiliate market yet. But some people do know how to make it big in this kind of market. It is just knowing your kind of market and making the earnings there.
In side the affiliate resuer pdf you will find some of the best ways I have seen to date to advertise and profit from your affiliate sites.
While some ways may seem a bit shady, the affiliate resue pdf is a perfectly reasonabile and clear cut guidline for optimal promotions.You will learn the easies tand low cost(really almost all are free!!) ways to profit from any affiliate program you want to join.
I was blown away by the simplicity and knowlege held inside this guide, and while I have been online for some time,there was so much to learn.If you want to learn the correct ways to make the cash be sure and read through the affiliate rescuer pdf quite a few times, try each and every step to see which ones you excell at and drive it home!! In no time you will master the easier parts for yourself and then can continue on to master new tactics. Then you, yes YOU will be an extreme affiliate marketer earning $3000 or even $5000 a month or more!!
Do youself a huge favor, grab a copy if you can,you wont be sorry….only successful!

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Is Your Child a Rescuer?

Friday, November 7th, 2008

When I was a little girl I had a friend named Vicki Pedigoe. She was so sweet to me. She had long, straight black hair and big black eyes, with a light olive complexion. We were in the third grade and I had no other friends. She didn’t either. We played together during every recess (back in the day when we actually had three free recess periods) and after school as long as we could. She had one doll. I had a whole slew of dolls. Her doll, she claimed, was the best because it was a rubber doll and it was soft and she could hold it and cuddle it. I knew she was trying to make herself feel better about it. One day she asked if she could keep the dolls in my doll carrier over night to play with them. I didn’t hesitate. Of course she could keep them. The next day she wasn’t at school. I went to her house. She was gone. Her whole family was gone. I was to never see her again. I cried and cried, not so much for the dolls, but for her. She was my only friend. I didn’t care that she kept the dolls, or even that she deliberately manipulated me to give them to her. I felt she should have them.

Now, this story is sweet on the surface. The problem comes in when you realize that I didn’t care that she took them because of my own shame. I felt she deserved them more than I did. That’s what is underneath the “giving” nature of a Rescuer.

Often kids do have big hearts. We certainly don’t want to curtail that trait! But we also must help them learn the difference between being nice and being a Rescuer. To accomplish that we have to understand that when a child has a healthy sense of themselves and a good solid self esteem, they won’t be willing to give more than is good for them. Secondly, we have to understand that doing things for someone when they can or should do it for themselves is not good for them. It is disrespectful and keeps them locked into the role of a helpless victim. It can destroy their sense of worth and competence.

Are we Rescuers? We need to pay attention to our own tendency to care take others because children will do what we do, not what we say, no matter how many times we admonish them to do otherwise.

To help our kids not become Rescuers we have to do three things: 1) curtail our own Rescuing behaviors 2) make sure that our kids self esteem is in tact 3) teach them how it feels to have someone do something for us that we can and should do for ourselves (the definition of Rescuing).

Many of the things we do for our kids do not produce the result that we want. We want our kids to be proud of themselves and have a healthy self respect. But when we constantly rescue them by running up to school to deliver forgotten homework, or even do their homework for them, we are teaching them that they cannot do it for themselves. When we buy every little thing they want they will not learn the sense of competence, personal power, and self esteem that comes from achieving something for themselves. This is how we model Rescuing behavior to our children.

It’s not always obvious when a child’s self esteem is lagging. Often they try very hard to look better than they feel (ever do that yourself?). So we have to look for clues. When she is trying a new task, does she get frustrated right away, blaming others or saying something disparaging about herself, like “I`m stupid”. When he is asked a question and doesn’t know the answer, does he try to bluff, insisting his answer is correct, or guess and then become discouraged that he doesn’t know it? When playing with a friend does she give in immediately to what the other child wants? If you answered yes to any of these you may need to help your child with their self-esteem. Often the outside perspective of a professional counselor can help you nurture your children’s self esteem.

Building self-esteem starts with not rescuing them. When we encourage them to accomplish goals for themselves they feel good about themselves. Teach your kids that doing things for themselves makes them feel proud and capable. That means when they do something new or achieve something they have worked for, help them recognize how good it feels. Then, when a friend wants them to do something for them that they can and should do for themselves, you can remind them of how they felt when they did things for themselves. Then your child can make a choice about how to respond based on their own experience of how it feels to accomplish something themselves.

The three components of teaching a child not to Rescue require our attention to ourselves, and our children’s behaviors. How we treat others, our children, and ourselves dramatically influences how they view themselves and react to their world. So pay attention.

Melody Brooke, MA, LPC, LMFT is an author, speaker, workshop presenter and counselor. Melody holds an MA in Counseling and Guidance from Texas Woman’s University. She is also a Certified Radix Practitioner, Right Use of Power Teacher and InterPlay Teacher. Melody`s 19 years work with individuals, couples and families provides her with a unique approach to solving clients’ problems. Her life-altering book, “Cycles of the Heart: A way out of the egocentrism of everyday life”, is based on her experience helping people resolve their relationship difficulties with themselves and others. To find out more about InterPlay and “Cycles of the Heart” go to Melody`s Homepage